Valerie Alexander, my sister, is described by many people as sweet --and she is sweet. I say “IS” because her spirit “IS” forever. Sweet though is a one-word summary of the qualities of my sister. There are so many good genuine qualities about my sister. Valerie was warm and she was giving. My sister looked for the “good” of every experience. Valerie also looked for the good in everyone.
Valerie’s smile to me was comforting and assuring. Her smile made me feel better. Her smile was uplifting to me. Valerie’s smile had a warmth and a sparkle. While Valerie’s personality included a quiet gentleness and tenderness, Valerie was as strong as anybody I know. My sister pulled herself up by the proverbial bootstrap and never complained. Whether it was sunny or rain, Valerie was steady, caring, smiling and eternally optimistic. Valerie was always hopeful and wished the best for all of us, family, and friends.
Valerie could come across appearing to be reserved, but Valerie was full of life from the start. When I was in elementary school, whenever I would come over to Aunt May’s house, Valerie would keep me running about. Aunt May would smile when she saw the energy Valerie was expending.
Valarie was always kindhearted. Valerie was always considerate. She was empathetic when she did not have to be. Valerie was considerate not for any type of gain but because she was caring.
Valerie is a mother, sister and hero. My sister had a golden heart, is god’s blessing to her daughter Yolanda. Valerie is a blessing to me and my family.
Valerie loved me and all in our family unconditionally and she was always happy to see every one of us. Valarie was my angel on earth. For everyone who have experienced the warmth of Valerie’s smile and her love and friendship, KNOW that her smile, her love and goodwill will never diminish. Valerie is a part of us, she will always be in my heart. Love you, Calvin Holmes
